December 30, 2008

As the new year approaches there are many things I can look back on and smile as I made some of the most important decisions in my life time.  Though at one time they seemed like the hardest and I’d not be able to do it safely, once done, I realized that they were the easiest times of my life.  It was living in the danger and hell day to day that was the hard part.

We love our mates still in many ways for the things that attracted us to them, Many parts of MySelves could not live and love our mates for the things that they did that were hurtful.  At 56 years old now I know that it is easier to live Single then to feel that I have to have a man in my life to feel safe. 

It is safe for me to say that We all inside would take a very grownup person to understand the many parts of a multiples life.  I do not hide that part of myself from anyone.  I feel sorry and can joke now about how my past husbands and mates had to deal with the complex person I seemed to have been.  Though some did not ever get to know all the different me’s I can be, they would express their confusion to the many changes that they witnessed.  For many years I didn’t even understand what they were even talking about with my attitude changes.  That was part of the journey into my own discovery of who I was. 

I have spent single time discovering who I am/was/can be and time with mates who though didn’t fully understand it, could tell and understand what was happening when it would present it ’Self to the world.  Being co-conscious of them has helped to use their own strength for a challenge when I needed to call upon a certain task that needs to be done.  Just setting myself into the mode long enough to accomplish what I need to that day. 

In many ways I have not so much as chose to stay single these last three years in New York as I have just not presented myself into the real world into places where I would meet perhaps a mate.  I did have one brief friendship that I thought could have become something more, yet the Universal Wisdom did provide me with the wisdom to know the difference.  And never more was that wonderful saying more important when the time came.

GOD, (good orderly direction)

Grant me the serenity….
….to accept the things I can not change
….to change the things I can
….& the wisdom to know the difference

Finding another multiple in a man and being able to show him that was good and promising in the fact that so much of your behavior can be easily understood and I could understand his.  Yet a reminder that we all find our way at different times was the lesson of that year.  With that I buried myself into my work and focused on what I could do in life again instead of investing any time into a story that could never have a happy ever after ending.  If there is such a thing in life.  Most days I believe only in my stories and the wonderful stories of the writers I know.  

Just remember that either chose we make is the correct one if you do it with an easy heart.  Happiness comes easy.  If you have to struggle or give up yourself in any way, then you can not find happiness.  Be yourself, and most importantly, allow the others in your life to be themselves.  Never ask someone to change who they are for you because surely down the road the real them will come out.  If only for their own survival. 

Share your thoughts with us here or you can come to Lady Jz Talk Zone and share in the Echoes of Courage and help others find their way.  Lady J


ps:  remember that because of the Universal time and Global natural rotation of the earth does not match up that at Midnight on the 31st as You count down to the new year there will be one second added to the clock.  So as you count down 5…4…3…2..1…pause one more second then begin your new year.  Every four years we get one more day of life added to ours and this year you are granted one more second.  I plan to take one more deep breath of life!  lj


If I’m real lucky the weather will ease enough for a short trip to the Poconos PA.  If it stays bad and we can’t get out well, I’ll be back here on Friday working…lol…Either way I wish you all a wonderful holiday and a really great New Year.   We all deserve that and I have to say that it’s looking much better then it did to me 12 months ago.

This was the hardest year for me I think I’ve even had both financially and physically so I’m looking forward to new year full of promise and new hopes.   And I wish for each of you all of the same.  Till then…stay safe and enjoy.  lj

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REmind Yourself help

December 17, 2008

pop up reminder

An Honest Review of My PopupReminder
I know you like to keep up with what’s hot on the internet.
I’ve talked about this before when I first got it
and I’m finally getting some real time to come back
and talk about MY PopupReminder these last weeks.

No matter what other opinions they claim on their site
I find that writing my own personal letters work best for me.
It’s what I want to see instead of the same old tag letter they
give you when you sign up as an affiliate to send out.

They were saying "this is the final solution to ending
procrastination, and the best way to be productive over a long
period of time.: So because of the enormous buzz, I tried it.
I was impressed. It took a bit more then they said to see my results &
I did have one complaint, one major annoying problem.

I’m going to personally say that this is the most, annoying product you will ever get.
That said, it was the annoying part of it that kept me going. I even shut it off a few times
because I thought I wasn’t getting my "OTHER" stuff done because it kept telling me to
stop what I was doing to do what I had it scheduled to have me do. Low and behold I did
begin to realize that when I shut the POP UP REMINDER off I wasn’t getting any more
work done plus I was not getting up from the computer every two hours to move around.
Now having a back in the shape mine is I realize that I was stiffening up again from not
taking breaks and I wasn’t getting "ONLY" the stuff I planned for each day done because
we all know that one email can lead to another site, and another thread and next thing I know
I’m off doing something else other then what I had planned on doing that morning.

When you are disabled and are building these online business stuff up and there is no real
deadline for you, that isn’t a big problem, until you are about four or five months into the
project and you still have not got that system down you started out to create. Much closer
then I was five months ago, yet it finally dawned on me that in order to make this work I had
to now organize everything into their spots. Here’s where this has been the life saver it was
meant to be.

Each day I can not only be reminded on the basic goal to move around and take care of my
back and life I can now put into the POP UP REMINDER the task that needs to be completed
that day. Instead of putting that whole list up and checking them off as I get to them I can now
spread the whole task out into five day groups and only have to deal with each days folder as I
build that products page, links, list, codes and put them up.

Now each week the work is done and I only have to open one folder each day for the business,
go down the links and click them in the BLIST (another great free program I use) log in, put my
add out, check my stats, then go on to the next opps I have in that days folder. So if you are
looking for a great program and reseller that helps your own life as well as that of others please
think about this one. Read about it and save our link in that special folder marked LadyJz Opps

art worker

December 16, 2008

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